RESILIENCE

Intention. Awareness. Practice.

 

Life’s challenges are inevitable, yet the human body is built to protect, heal and connect. Resilience isn’t just enduring adversity - it is the ability to recover, adapt, and grow. Though simple in concept, it requires intention, self awareness, and the courage to act, fail, and try again (and again).

Like any skill, resilience is cultivated through practice.

  • Set your intention

    Without direction, how will you know where you're going? Motivation ebbs and flows, but anchoring in your core values serve as a steady compass, keeping you grounded in what matters most.

  • Lean into awareness

    Self-awareness is the foundation of meaningful change. When we bring thoughts and emotions into consciousness, we shift from being unconsciously driven by them to actively learning from them. This means leaning into discomfort rather than avoiding it, allowing ourselves to experience the messiness and vulnerability of being human.

  • Regulate, process and integrate

    Unresolved traumas big and small linger in our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, keeping the past present. This might show up as persistent anxiety, self-doubt, or emotional reactivity. Emotional regulation is a learned skill essential for growth, whether in or outside of therapy.

    What does this process look like?

    • Regulate: Use breath, movement, or visualization to calm the nervous system.

    • Process: Making space to work through difficult experiences.

    • Integrate: Rewrite your life’s narrative - through writing, art, movement, or reflection - untily our experiences form a cohesive and meaningful whole.

  • Cultivate healthy relationships

    We are wired for connection. The relationships we nurture shape our emotional landscape, influence how we handle stress, and impact how we engage with the world. Healthy relationships provide safety, support, and the foundation for growth. They remind us that resilience is not built in isolation but in connection with others.

  • Practice, practice and more practice

    Knowledge is only the beginning. Resilience is forged through repetition, through action, failing, learning, and rising each time we fall.

 
 

Practice between Sessions

Want to DIY to develop your emotional regulation skills? Dive a bit deeper into the wealth of resources from subject matter experts to facilitate your resilience practice.

 

Try something of Interest

Knowledge and skills become integrated through repeated discovery, understanding and practice. Here are simply a few ideas to get you started.